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Child Custody (Hadana) Timeline Calculator

Maps a child's date of birth to the classical hadana (custody) milestones of the four Sunni schools — weaning, tamyiz and the age the mother's default custody ends.

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In classical fiqh the mother holds default custody (hadana) of young children — “You have more right to him as long as you do not marry,” the Prophet ﷺ told a divorced mother (Abu Dawud 2276). Where the four Sunni schools differ is when that default ends: at 7 or 9, at puberty or marriage, or when the child chooses. This tool converts those positions into actual dates for your child.

Enter the date of birth, gender and madhhab to see the weaning milestone (two lunar years, Quran 2:233), the age of discernment, and each school’s hadana milestone side by side. It is an educational map of the classical positions — modern family courts apply statutory law and the child’s best interests, so treat this as study material, never legal advice.

Quick reference

SchoolBoysGirls
HanafiMother until 7, then fatherMother until 9, then father
MalikiMother until pubertyMother until marriage
ShafiʻiChild chooses at 7Child chooses at 7
HanbaliBoy chooses at 7Mother until 9, then father

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For tools where the calculation differs between schools (Faraid inheritance, certain Zakat triggers, prayer-time conventions), we surface the choice as a selector and document the difference in the methodology block. Pick the school that matches your tradition — the answer adjusts.

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These calculators give you the number — they do not give a fatwa. For complex personal situations (inheritance with revoked rights, mixed-asset Zakat, late prayer makeup rules), please confirm with a qualified scholar in your tradition. We're here to help with the arithmetic, not to replace your local imam.

Interpretation guide

PhaseMeaning
Hadana (0–7)Mother's default custody in all four schools — her right unless she is unfit
Tamyiz (~7)Age of discernment — choice or transfer triggers in most schools
Milestone reachedThe school's default transfer/choice age has passed
Modern courtsStatutory family law usually overrides these classical defaults

Formula & methodology

Formula: Milestone date = date of birth + school's hadana age (boy/girl); nursing ends at 2 lunar years (Quran 2:233)

  1. Enter the child's date of birth, select boy or girl, and pick the fiqh school.
  2. The timeline shows the end of the nursing period (2 lunar years), the age of discernment (~7), and the school's hadana milestone date.
  3. All four schools' milestone dates are listed side by side for comparison.

Worked example: a boy born 15 March 2020 under the Hanafi school: nursing milestone 15 Mar 2022, tamyiz 15 Mar 2027 — the mother's default custody runs until 15 March 2027 (age 7), after which care transfers to the father while the mother retains visitation.

Frequently asked questions

Who gets custody of children in Islam?
The mother holds default custody (hadana) of young children in all four Sunni schools — the Prophet ﷺ told a mother: “You have more right to him as long as you do not marry” (Abu Dawud 2276). The schools differ on when that default ends.
At what age does the mother's custody end?
Hanafi: 7 for boys, 9 for girls. Shafiʻi: the child chooses at 7. Hanbali: boys choose at 7, girls to the father at 9. Maliki: boys until puberty, girls until marriage. The calculator converts these into actual dates for your child.
Does the child get to choose a parent?
In the Shafiʻi school both boys and girls choose at the age of discernment; in the Hanbali school boys do. Hanafi and Maliki jurists assign custody by rule instead of choice.
Is this how courts actually decide custody?
No — modern family courts, including in Muslim-majority countries, apply statutory law and the child's best interests, which often differ from classical defaults. Use this timeline for study, and a family lawyer for a real case.
Does remarriage affect hadana?
Classically the mother's custody right lapses if she marries a man who is a stranger (non-mahram) to the child, based on the hadith above — though courts today weigh this within the child's overall welfare.

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